Wednesday, May 31, 2023

Family Retreat



“Eli’s sons were scoundrels; they had no regard for the Lord. Now it was the practice of the priests that, whenever any of the people offered a sacrifice, the priest’s servant would come with a three-pronged fork in his hand while the meat was being boiled and would plunge the fork into the pan or kettle or caldron or pot. Whatever the fork brought up the priest would take for himself. This is how they treated all the Israelites who came to Shiloh. But even before the fat was burned, the priest’s servant would come and say to the person who was sacrificing, “Give the priest some meat to roast; he won’t accept boiled meat from you, but only raw.” If the person said to him, “Let the fat be burned first, and then take whatever you want,” the servant would answer, “No, hand it over now; if you don’t, I’ll take it by force.” This sin of the young men was very great in the Lord’s sight, for they were treating the Lord’s offering with contempt. But Samuel was ministering before the Lord—a boy wearing a linen ephod. Each year his mother made him a little robe and took it to him when she went up with her husband to offer the annual sacrifice. Eli would bless Elkanah and his wife, saying, “May the Lord give you children by this woman to take the place of the one she prayed for and gave to the Lord.” Then they would go home. And the Lord was gracious to Hannah; she gave birth to three sons and two daughters. Meanwhile, the boy Samuel grew up in the presence of the Lord. Now Eli, who was very old, heard about everything his sons were doing to all Israel and how they slept with the women who served at the entrance to the tent of meeting. So he said to them, “Why do you do such things? I hear from all the people about these wicked deeds of yours. No, my sons; the report I hear spreading among the Lord’s people is not good. If one person sins against another, God may mediate for the offender; but if anyone sins against the Lord, who will intercede for them?” His sons, however, did not listen to their father’s rebuke, for it was the Lord’s will to put them to death. And the boy Samuel continued to grow in stature and in favor with the Lord and with people. Now a man of God came to Eli and said to him, “This is what the Lord says: ‘Did I not clearly reveal myself to your ancestor’s family when they were in Egypt under Pharaoh? I chose your ancestor out of all the tribes of Israel to be my priest, to go up to my altar, to burn incense, and to wear an ephod in my presence. I also gave your ancestor’s family all the food offerings presented by the Israelites. Why do you scorn my sacrifice and offering that I prescribed for my dwelling? Why do you honor your sons more than me by fattening yourselves on the choice parts of every offering made by my people Israel?’ “Therefore the Lord, the God of Israel, declares: ‘I promised that members of your family would minister before me forever.’ But now the Lord declares: ‘Far be it from me! Those who honor me I will honor, but those who despise me will be disdained. The time is coming when I will cut short your strength and the strength of your priestly house, so that no one in it will reach old age, Every one of you that I do not cut off from serving at my altar I will spare only to destroy your sight and sap your strength, and all your descendants will die in the prime of life. “ ‘And what happens to your two sons, Hophni and Phinehas, will be a sign to you—they will both die on the same day. I will raise up for myself a faithful priest, who will do according to what is in my heart and mind. I will firmly establish his priestly house, and they will minister before my anointed one always. Then everyone left in your family line will come and bow down before him for a piece of silver and a loaf of bread and plead, “Appoint me to some priestly office so I can have food to eat.” ’ ””
‭‭1 Samuel‬ ‭2‬:‭12‬-‭31‬, ‭33‬-‭36‬ ‭NIV‬‬
https://bible.com/bible/111/1sa.2.12-36.NIV

Worship Vs Contempt
Contempt - V17 
Treating the Lord’s offering with contempt 
- treating God with disregard, as worthless or beneath consideration 

How we give our offerings 
How we worship
How we pray before meals, watch our hearts when we pray
How we treat the Lord’s day

V18 Samuel was ministernh before the Lord
Wearing an ephod and treating God as worthy of blessing, honour, glory and power. Rev 5:12

We honour human Kings in Palace by dressing up well. Do we sinply dress up for comfort when we come before the Lord. 

Consecrating Worship
Who are we in relationship with 

Discipleship Vs Profanity
Profanity- slept with women who served at entrance to the tent of meeting V22
Treating God’s holiness with contempt

Discipleship- grew up in the presence of God V21
Immersed in the presence of God

Consecrating Discipleship
How much worth is God and His Holiness to us?
In what ways are we profaning the presence of God by thought, word, or action in following Christ?

Maturity Vs Blasphemy
Blasphemy - scorn my sacrifice and offering V29
An utterance rhat shows contempt, disrespects or insilts God and what is sacred? 

Maturity - grow In statue and in favour with the Lord and with people V26
Maturing to be like Christ 2 Cor 3:18

Media is preparing a whole generation who thinks ugly  Anti-Christ as cool ! 

Consecrating Maturity 
Do we insult God by the way we speak of His Wors and His Ways? 
Are we following after Jesus and becoming more complete and mature in Him? 

How do we follow Christ? 

Reflection 
In what ways havevwe grown increasingly comfortable with darkness, sometimes to the point of feeling trapped and helpless in our family? 

Has the great transfer take plave or us taking place in our lives? In our families? 


Tuesday, May 30, 2023

We are Family Church Retreat 2023

We are Family Church Retreat 2023
Karabrunai Resorts https://www.nexusresort.com/en 
29 - 31 May 2023

https://www.nexusresort.com/en


1st church camp after pandemic. It has been at least 5 long years 
since the last church retreat organised.

First morning, woke up to witness intense exercise 
at the beach by our eldest son, Elliot. Quite a scary photo right ?


Family has to have forgiveness for one another. 
Have to learn to wash one another's feet, now modern way, 
we used cleansing wipes to wash the feet. I got a foot massage 
espcially for my bunions simply because I asked for it. 

Family group hug at the youth session with Bel 
and its her 18th birthday today! 



Worship session at the main hall.


About 200 campers at this camp.


Twenty Ways for me to feel loved :-
  1. Someone remembers my special days.
  2. Someone remembers my sepcial events and offer prayers for me.
  3. When I received a special message 
  4. Someone offers helps in kitchen and cooking.
  5. Spending time with me.
  6. Having a lovely meal just because we want to. 
  7. Someone calling me just to say what they think of my work
  8. Having a deep conversations about personal life and life in general
  9. To feel understood 
  10. To be heard of my situations
  11. To receive a gift to pamper myself esp for me-time
  12. To go for massage and spa 
  13. To blog or write down what I am grateful for
  14. Show appreciation to people who I am grateful for - sharing love to others
  15. Reach out to people I love and care
  16. Accept compliments from others
  17. Helping me to do research on topics that are of concerns and interests to me.
  18. Bringing my favourite food to me when I could not go out.
  19. Accpeting me trully for who I am and not criticise my flaws.
  20. To read up a good write up about keen topics. 
https://www.minimalismmadesimple.com/home/feeling-loved/

God's Ideas about Family through the lens of Marriage Relationship
Why do you think God started "family" with a marriage relationship instead of a parental relationship or a sibling relationship ?

Marriage - equal ground, not lord over one another
Sacrifical relationship 
Protective relationship
Nurturing relationship
Bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh, couple are one 
Husband and wife submit to God, wife submit to husband


Parental relationship is hierachy, order
Siblings - same level 

Building Blocks for building relationship within family

Complimenting
Assuring Confidence 
Comforting
Couching




Sunday, May 21, 2023

(Temporary Backup) Mother’s Day Reflection 2023


1 Samuel 
Love with the love of the cross

Love the unlovable
Forgive the unforgivable 
Cherish the uncherishable 

Touch the untouchables 
Reach the unreachable 
Embrace the offensive 

Choose the unworthy 

Receive the hurtful
the unkind



Just 3 words 
Just 3 nails
Just 3 days 

As you take time off 
to recover
to recharge
to rebuild
May you see your divine destiny 
to be healed
to be refreshed 
to be revived 
As the daughter of The King
You are precious 
You are special 
You are loved